Ancient cultures looked to the stars to discover patterns that might bring certainty and a sense of connection to something greater than themselves. Recent advances in brain science have characterized the brain as a pattern-making device that feels rewarded when it makes connections. Medical reports in the popular media point to the healthy aspects of having social connections. A 2004 Gallup Poll reports that on average, Americans have nine “close” friends. (Carroll, 2004) While many sources point to 9 as an average number of “core” friends, on the social networking site, Facebook, people have an average of 130 friends. (facebook, 2011) LinkedIn, the social networking site for business, qualifies connections by degrees of separation, 1st-degree, 2nd-degree, and 3rd-degree.
The implied promise being that all of us are only degrees away from connecting with any other person on earth. Our brains find that enticing.
Perhaps taking the social experience “online” represents another evolutionary step in humankinds’ search for meaningful connection. Why is it so important for leaders to understand the neural drivers for connectedness within organizations? NeuroLeaders look to the brain for astral guidance.
The overarching, organizing principle of the brain, to minimize danger and maximize reward, (Gordon, 2009) simply applied to connectedness, explains how being dis-connected can feel threatening, and trigger the X-System. Brain-based leaders consider the X- and C-Systems at play within their organizations. (Lieberman, 2011)
The X-System (reflexive) produces our ongoing experience of reality (Lieberman et al., 2011). As the amygdala and dorsal anterior cingulate cortex (dACC) scan and detect threats in the environment, the basal ganglia automatically, habitually, responds.
An organization’s X-System is triggered during a normal workday as individuals experience “social pinches” when they are not included or someone just looks at them the “wrong” way. The X-System generates an “away” brain state as individuals experience the reality of social pain. Getting stuck in the X-System can lead to a decrease in morale, lower productivity, higher cortisol levels and a downward spiral of negativity. (Fredrickson, 2009)
The ACC not only identifies a problem in the X-System it takes control away and recruits the C-System (reflective). The ACC is seen as the alarm system and the prefrontal cortex, the lord of the manor. (Lieberman et al., 2011) Specifically, the subjects of the C-System include the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (DLPFC), the ventrolateral prefrontal cortex (VLPFC) and the medial prefrontal cortex (MPFC) who step in to assert control, set goals, and restore order to reduce threat. A sense of autonomy and certainty feels rewarding, creates a “toward” response and an improved sense of engagement. Connecting with others arouses the brain’s reward system.
NeuroLeaders look beyond the average 9 “core” friends and 150 facebook connections to the macro- social brain of their organizations. NeuroLeaders focus on shared vision, purpose, inclusion and fairness to achieve a rewarding environment of connectedness and high performance.
When in doubt, they look to the stars…
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